4.30.2006

The Hurtful Things We Say

Another gem from hubby:

"You're not a priority, you're a bitch."

19 comments:

rhonda said...

Woah....not cool. Hugs from here!

Pattie said...

Wow, I am so sorry to hear that. It must have hurt....

Chase said...

*gasp*

I'll come over there and pound on him a bit if you want me to. That's uncalled for. Hmph.

Denise said...

WTF?! Why are men such asses?

Shana said...

Seriously, maybe you should rethink having another baby right now. Because damn, there are no words.

MrsFortune said...

Wow, I'm really starting to hate your husband. I mean, like, a lot. :(

chelle said...

hmm that is just mean...

Cityslicker Mom said...

GASP...I hope he apologizes, and soon.

Meg said...

Wow, sounds exactly like something my husband would say!

Izzy said...

Gah! What the hell?

I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

something blue said...

That would leave me pretty much speechless.

The heated words in fights are only meant to hurt. I hope that you have made up.

Juliabohemian said...

If things like that are being said, it is really time to seek some counseling. I would really be taking some good looks at this relationship to see where the foundation broke.

Lack of understanding of one another's needs or feelings is probably one of the main reasons for divorce. The more it is ignored, the wider that gap gets. Eventually, it would be unbridgable. Please, take my advice. I used to be in your exact situation. You need counseling...an outside party. Church? perhaps. Do it now. Don't wait.

Christina said...

I've got to second counseling. Wow. My husband has never called me a bitch, and if he ever did he'd be in big trouble.

That's one of those words that should never be thrown around between a married couple, no matter how mad you are. He needs a new filter between his brain and mouth, I think.

Lisa said...

OMG!!

I'm speechless honestly. That's uncalled for and completely unneeded. I agree with pp that perhaps you need to take a step back and reevaluate your marriage. JMO

mothergoosemouse said...

OMG. He WHAT?

Kristen said...

I can't even close my mouth. I would have slapped him right across the face.

Mommy off the Record said...

Oh boy. I am so sorry your husband said that to you. Hopefully he has apologized??

Nancy said...

Ouch. I hope he was just mad and took it back, but even if he did -- that's the kind of thing you never forget.

Petite Mommy said...

OMG! I am so sorry to hear that. I hope that he has said he was very sorry and I second the comment about counseling.